TAz has to vent!!!!

My daughters husband ( the WOW game junkie) just took off this morning with his clothes and the car that SHE has been paying for knowing that she is working two jobs, going to school full time AND taking care of a 2 year old....I am just sooo pissed rightb now... FUUUUUUCCCCKKKKKKKKK!!!!!!!!! Now she is stuck out in the boonies with NO transportation no way to get to work cause he took the car she scrimped to pay for.....went home to Mommie!! Sorry guys but I just had to vent cause I have to keep clam for her and the little one!....I guess the best way to look at it is that him leaving is the best thing that could have happened but he should have been man enough to leave her the car...AH well she has a great supprt system....She has a good family and a LOT of friends to keep her goin!! Sorry again but just writing this helped...Thank God I wasn't here when the shit went down!!!!

WHAT THE FUCK!?.... Taz, call me when you can talk and let me know what the hell is up.

God.. that's so fucked up.. if I lived closer, by a lot.. I'd definitely keep an eye on the little one for her.

You know man...Whats been goin on.....just came to a head today I'm just really happy hes gone but its gonna be very rough on her for a while...she is pretty screwed up ...you know how it goes pal!!

Well thanks Amber thats really sweet of ya....Between the TAzMommy and Myself we got it covered but I really do appreciate the sentiment!

TAz, You gotta look ahead long term. From what you've said, this dude's got some issues, and they're never gonna get resolved as long as she's the one having to hold down her fort AND his fort. Let her take care of herself just as she's been doing, and let him wipe his own ass for a while. TCE

I know that we have talked amongst ourselves a time or three about this. I was under the impression that he was making, all-be-it very very small, but some improvement.... And with what money is he going to use to get down to his mom's?.... And now knowing what I know about his last relationship and his mom's position on that, what the fuck is she going to do for him?.... Don't get me wrong. I'm not misplacing my concerns with the wrong person. It thoroughly disappoints me that he would do that to Taj and V....

Yeah, and does his mom have a computer for him to play his WAR CRAP on?

You are surely right Tim...its just by him taking her car and leaving her holding the bag IS NOT RIGHT and it pisses me off....it did not need to happen this way at all....he just has no concern for anyone but himself...couldn't care less about his own son...I just don't get it....but yeah as long as she doesn't get weak and let the worm come crawlin back she will be MUCH better off.She is my firstborn and I just hate to see her hurting over a bitchboy like him....

She paid for the damn thing, take her to go get it!!!!!!!! He's where he belongs, back with his mommie, so he doesn't need it.

How is he gonna get there?...with the full tank of gas that I put in the car for her this morning!...And yeah his mom has a computer.I talked to her earlier and she said she hoped he didn't come down there but thats just what he did and of course that IS his mom so ya know how that goes...Tassja is a strong one and she is gonna be ok!!

Still, go get the damn car man!! It's not his..........

Yeah she paid for it but its in his moms name...they had to do it that way because His credit sucked and he still owed the military a few grand ....just a bad deal...His mom always said that if something happened she would make sure that Tassja got the car...she knew who was making the payments!!...But now...she is changing her tune....just like I knew she would...but its ok we are here for her!...and now she can get a REAL man that will treat her ANd Virgil as they should be treated...Its life man!!...We have all been through it...you (jason) should know more than most...

You should probably consider moving the 9mm to another location. It may be toooooo tempting to use it when he comes back into town.... Did he ever pay Nutty back the money he borrowed to buy that gun? .... God help him if Tristan gets a hold of him.

I hear ya Taz; I hear ya.

Dude, I'm at a loss here.......................it's a fucked up situation. If you go to court over it, can she prove that she was the one making the payments? If his mother doesn't make the payments, it's gonna get repossessed,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,especially if they know where they can find it.

Tim...no worries...we are not a litigious family...he can keep the damn car...I'll get her a better one .... Jason...he took his little pea shooter...have you never seen MY little trunk full of ...ummmm...things?...And no he didn't pay Nathan...we don't care as long as he stays away!...He will need to pawn the Glock for cigs cause he has no money ans Mommie is a very rabid anti smoker...can't even smoke on her PROPERTY!!!

Sorry to hear about all your daughters troubles TAZ. Sounds like the dude was no good anyways.Taking the car away from your daughter and child just shows how much of a bitch he is.

Sorry to hear about all your daughters troubles TAZ. Sounds like the dude was no good anyways.Taking the car away from your daughter and child just shows how much of a bitch he is.

Sorry to hear about all your daughters troubles TAZ. Sounds like the dude was no good anyways.Taking the car away from your daughter and child just shows how much of a bitch he is.

oops, sorry about the triple post!!

Thanks man!

9mm,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,HA!!!!!! The cops have better guns than that!!!!! They got sick of them ricocheting off the gang bangers bling!!!!

I'm partial to my .454 Casul and my .44mag s&w...they make BIG holes!

Why're they even shooting at gang bangers? It's not like they can hit the side of a barn with a shotgun...

...............from the inside! TAz, da .454 is a bad fuckin' gun!!!!!!!! It's a bad ass engine too!! Whatchoo got in the hearse................?.................engine, I mean.

Damn. Just.... Damn. What a scumbag. I'm really sorry that you all have to deal with this.

Saiyge..wassup?...Do ya want me to send the insurance receipt?.. Tim...It has a 5hundred something...supposed to be the biggest stock engine ever or something...its HUGE!!!

Seriously, fuck that guy. When I was 20 my husband (at the time)took all our money, my car and all my ID and went to Canada, after a week of him being gone I took the bastard back. He had lost the car and spent all the money. Two months later he decided it would be a good idea to punch my face in and put me in the hospital for a week. I sent that fucker to jail and never looked back. The moral of the story … there is no second chance. Molly

Oh hes had chance after chance I just hope she sticks to her guns this time...as for him ever hurting her ...shit!!...He knows me and my family too well for that ...hes a little bitch boy anyway...any man who would do what he did to his wife and kid has no balls anyway!

Just a question: His mommy isn't gonna be around forever, I hope he knows that. Eventually, he'll run out of places to run. He better figure that shit out and learn to be a man real fucking soon. God I hate when shit like that happens. Karma is so damn comforting at times like this. I like to believe everyone gets theirs.

Yeah they do eventually get theirs Red...I believe that everyone gets the life they deserve .as for money all he had was my daughters last twenty bucks that for whatever reason she gave him to leave on...the real heartbreaker is little Virgil who keeps saying"its my fault Daddy left"....wondering what he did that was so bad his Daddy ran away...That makes me want to hurt someone...Tassja is a big girl and she can take it ...this kind of total bullshit can scar a kid for life! It sucks ...it just sucks!

Taz, just read about what that bitchboy did to your daughter and I doubt I need say what I'm thinking, I trust you KNOW. But I'm confident your family is going to handle it but, well, it still sucks, loud. Hope your daughter can realize she really didn't lose anything worthwhile, as any man worth having could never do that to his family and I suspect she knows that. I think I know what you're feeling and thinking, remember what grampa said, applies real good here too, piasan and you know it. I realize Tassja must be hurting but I'm hoping she will understand she (and the little guy) are undoubtedly better off without that piece of shit and NOT let it get her down and while it's certainly none of my business, damn I hope she doesn't let that worthless excuse of a man come back after pulling this shit. I am so sorry to hear of this though, again, it really sucks...Doc

Thanks Doc!

TAz, 503 Caddy monster motor..............that's why it gets 5 miles to the gallon. At least you got room in there for yer son in law!! TCE

Yep And I can drive him around real fast! lol!

Heya hon, I'm going to be taking Kenny to his Kindergarten pre-screening today, I'll see if I can stop at the p.o. while I'm at it and see what they say there. Maybe we'll get lucky and they wont make a big deal over the receipt. I'll let ya know what happens..... Heyyyy you could scan it and email it to me, I could print it out maybe that would work?

TAZ... I feel ya watched my (used to be until latest) best friend go through bitch after bitch and married one he got pregnant. Big mistake... It's thanks to his latest we no longer speak. It's horrible when bad relationships happen to good people and even worse when kids are involved. I hear castoration is a good way to prevent repeat offenses.

O hang in there buddy... sounds like you and TAzettes are surrounded with love and support. Wish i was there to add mine. Shall i send my Jamaican posse? Just say the word.

""""..but its ok we are here for her!...and now she can get a REAL man that will treat her ANd Virgil as they should be treated...Its life man!!...We have all been through it...you (jason) should know more than most..."""" This is lil Virg's dad? What a tool. I would say she needs to stay away from any man for a long. long time. Period. Raise her boy with the men (you, her bros_) in her life as good father figures and.........hard as iit may be, do not talk shit about "daddy" in front of her son. It will backfire. smooches

I agree Mamacat!!...I would never say anything bad in front of him...my kids had to go through that...no way!!

Aww poor lil man, thinking he did something to cause his father's immaturity. That nearly made me cry. That's just shameful on his dad's part, to not even consider how it might make his son feel. At least if he was gonna leave, he could have been a man about it and explained it to a child who was about to be affected by his absence. We send all our love and best wishes out there. Nellie's blowin kisses to lil Virgil, and we'll keep them in our thoughts. I have no doubt in your daughter, though, she's got a good father and a strong family... it'll seem shitty now but she'll get through it and past it, and be relieved.

Mamacat, You mean like MARRYING the guy backfired.......? TAz, Ummm, I meant room in the back.......................is that what you meant? I suppose you could put him in a (pine) box back there and drive around real fast..............until he cries UNCLE!! TCE

You can let Virgil drive...........................

....Um, just so no one gets a case of mistaken identity, in Mamacat's post, the "jason" refered to from Taz's original post that she quoted.... That "jason" would be me, and that reference Taz was illuding to was a situation that I went through about 6 months ago and has nothing to do with said present situation.... =)

.""""""".Um, just so no one gets a case of mistaken identity, in Mamacat's post, the "jason" refered to from Taz's original post that she quoted.... That "jason" would be me, and that reference Taz was illuding to was a situation that I went through about 6 months ago and has nothing to do with said present situation.... =)"""""""""" I may have mis-quoted the wrong person, but in a nut shell what I meant was I hate it when people asume a woman needs another man to raise their kid. In a perfect world, I agree, a good man/role model is needed for raising boys AND girls. It helps teach them what mama can't just based on gender alone. HOWEVER, that said, statistics say that most cases of sexual abuse cases come from the mom's "boyfriends". Sad, but true so my attitude is if you're a single mom and want a booty call, go to his place. The "new" guy better jump through some serious "screenings" before they have any acess to "jelping raise" any woman's kids. Taz, I'm sure you're up FOR THAT job!

Mamacat..... Yep, totally agree with you on that one......................furthermore, the kid doesn't always want another guy replacing HIS father, or anything that smacks of replacement!! Sometimes, in a kids mind, it's all or nothing! TCE

I think this is just about the shittiest thing I've ever read Tazman. Just when you think you've seen about as much white trash as you can, something like this. It's bad enough something like this has to happen to your daughter who is i'm sure as sweet as she can be, but this is Virgil's Dad?? Cut this fucker loose. If he ever shows up again, get out the shotgun and the coonhound. No MAN, and I repeat, NO MAN would do this to his wife, and for GODDAMNED SURE, NO MAN WOULD EVER DO THIS TO HIS KID... What the fuck is wrong with people???? Argh!! Give Virgil and Natasha? all our love from me and my family. Of course if you need anything ever, you have only to ask. This sucks!! Well, if you want me to track his slimey ass down and drag him back I'd be happy to, but then he'd just stay longer. Let him fuckin' run. Call the Sherrif about the car though.... All our support is with you Taz and Taz family.... (On a wierd interesting little side note though, remember when Kenny said you need to talk to your daughter about a month ago, but you hadn't mentioned you had a daughter, but she urgently thought you needed to talk to your daughter that something was gonna be up??) Man my daughters are fuckin' wierd.... .... I know, I'm just sayin'.............

Thats why I was so freaked when you told me what she said!!...Its under control though...Tazette 4 is an attorney and a damn good one so Tassja is in good hands...I just hope and pray she doesn't get weak!!

By the way...We had a visit from a very famous guy today and he requested that I give you all the pleasure of viewing his awesomeness!!

D'awwwwwwwwwww!

Got that for him 4 days ago and only today was I able to get him out of it for laundry!...Even then I had to bribe him with a pirate costume and a new sword so he could be Captain Jack from the movie! OOPS!!!...he just woke up howling for rum!( yoo hoo in his favorite skull cup) Be back shortly...gotta walk the plank probably!

Hehehe.. my little brother did that with his Leonardo costume I got him for his birthday..

Taz, just had to tell ya that pic of Vigil , oops, Spiderman is precious, makes me want to hunt someone down and beat him 'til he can't even moan anymore and ya don't require 3 guesses I'd bet to figure out who, do ya. To happier times ahead...Doc And Al, as ya must know, I agree wholeheartedly with the 'no man', shit like him are a huge part of why so many women think of men the way the do nowadays, I think...Doc

"SIDEY" unveiled!

I meant "SPIDEY"!!!! DAMMITTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Damn, what a CUTE kid.

TAz, We gotta do something photowise with that kid in the days preceding TAzFEST!! TCE

Now THAT would be extra cool...he is a photogenic little poop!! Just like me!!...LOL!!!

Well there ya go!!! I always neglect to ask parents to sign release forms when I take pictures of their kids, so I cannot ethically (I'm not sure about legally) post any pictures of what I've got.........it's just bad karma. TCE

Everyone knows I'm a little biased, but that is one cute kid right there....

He is so damn cute!

Jenelle is over here just studying Virg's picture now, touching the screen and saying "boy" ... She's in love!!

Since we seem to be in the picture sharing mood.. my little Captain Jack.. unmasked of course.. torturing a kitten.. poor kitty.. http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b235/deathlily/DSC00520.jpg

Awwwwwwwwwwww. Spiderman is so sweet, although, do I see a TAZ twinkle in his eyes. Up to something Virg? (hmmmmmmm) wink